INTENTION
Forgiveness to Relatives, in laws.
MEDITATION
(Matthew 18:21-22) - "Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, 'Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?' Jesus answered, 'I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.'
(Sirach 28:2-3) : "Forgive your neighbor the wrong he has done, and when you pray, your sins will be forgiven. Do not harbor anger against another, for it consumes you." (Tobit 4:7-8) : "Forgive one another your transgressions. Remember, none of us is immortal. Do not bear a grudge against your brother or your neighbor. Remember the Most High, and let no quarrel remain with you." (1 Peter 3:9) : "Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing."
“The practice of forgiveness is absolutely essential if your family is to experience any degree of happiness and stability. There are various kinds of forgiveness that we each need to experience. Each of us needs to forgive ourselves and accept forgiveness for mistakes made in the past. Each of us needs the forgiveness of others against whom we have sinned. And each of us needs the forgiveness of God. Each of us also must grant the gift of forgiveness to others. Not to do so brings harmful repercussions into our lives.
forgiving spirit prevents the acid of hate from collecting as a corrosive force in your heart. Hate does more harm to the vessel that holds it than it does to the victim upon which it is poured.
“Joseph provides us with a beautiful example of the grace of forgiveness in his treatment of his brothers who sold him into slavery. They expected him to retaliate following the death of Jacob (Gen. 50:15–17). Joseph revealed by his actions that he had forgiven them fully and freely (Gen. 50:18–21). While the brothers benefited as a result of this act of forgiveness, Joseph had responded to injury in such a manner as to prevent the acid of hate from corroding his heart.
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
Act of Contrition
O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended you. I detest all my sins because of your just punishments, but most of all because they offend you, my God, who are all good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve, with the help of your grace, to sin no more and to avoid the occasions of sin. Amen.
Come Holy Spirit
Come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful and kindle in them the fire of your love. Send forth your Spirit and they shall be created. And You shall renew the face of the earth. O, God, who by the light of the Holy Spirit, did instruct the hearts of the faithful, grant that by the same Holy Spirit we may be truly wise and ever enjoy His consolations, Through Christ Our Lord, Amen.
The Lord's Prayer
Our Father, Who art in heaven, allowed be Thy Name. Thy Kingdom come. Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day oudaily bread. And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not Into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.
Hail Mary
Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
DAY - 5 NOVENA PRAYERS
Lord, I extend forgiveness to my sisters and brothers. I forgive those who rejected me, lied about me, hated me, resented me, and competed for my parents’ love, those who hurt me, who physically harmed me. For those who were too severe on me, punished me or made my life unpleasant in any way, I do forgive them.
A Prayer for Forgiveness of Relatives
Heavenly Father, as I stand before you with a heart burdened by the pain inflicted by my relatives, I seek your grace and your strength. I recognize that holding onto these hurts only harms myself and hinders the potential for healing and connection within our family. Drawing inspiration from your own boundless love, I choose to forgive. I forgive my in-laws, my mother and father, my son or daughter-in-law, and all other relatives by marriage for their words that stung, their actions that wounded, and their love that sometimes felt unavailable. I release them from the weight of my unforgiveness, and I choose to release myself from the shackles of resentment.
For my grandmother and grandfather, whose actions may have stemmed from love and care, but ultimately caused confusion and interference, I offer understanding and forgiveness. For my parents, who may have unintentionally caused hurt through their choices, I extend compassion and release them from the blame I held in my heart. Grant me, dear God, the unwavering strength to forgive not just once, but continuously. Let your love flow through me, melting away the barriers of misunderstanding and replacing them with bridges of compassion and empathy. May your divine light illuminate the path towards reconciliation, fostering unity and understanding within our family. In your holy name, I pray. Amen.
Prayer for Reciprocal Forgiveness
Dear God,
With a heavy heart, I acknowledge the hurt I have caused my relatives. My actions, words, and choices have inflicted pain, and for that, I deeply apologize. I recognize the harm I have done, and I yearn for their forgiveness.
I know that forgiveness is a two-way street, and while I strive to forgive them for their transgressions, I also recognize the need for their understanding and grace towards me. Guide me, Heavenly Father, in taking steps towards reconciliation. Grant me the courage to confess my wrongdoings openly and honestly, seeking their understanding without demanding their immediate forgiveness. Open my heart to their perspective, allowing their pain to become a catalyst for personal growth. If it be your will, soften their hearts and open them to the possibility of forgiveness. May they find the strength to release their resentment and choose a path of understanding and compassion. Help me demonstrate genuine remorse and a sincere commitment to change. Allow my actions to speak louder than my words, reflecting the lessons learned and the growth achieved.
Ultimately, guide us all towards a place of healing and restoration within our family. Weave your love and understanding into the fabric of our relationships, fostering empathy and strengthening the bonds we share. In your name, I pray. Amen..
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